So one of our wonderful State House Rep’s, Republican Ron Hood, introduced a bill to ban gay couples from adopting children or raising foster children. Here’s the article.
And here’s the letter I wrote to him (You should voice your concern also):
I think we can all agree that our society is screwed up and usually the children are the ones losing the most. We, as citizen’s of Ohio, America, and ultimately the world need to embrace all forms of love, whatever way or form that takes shape. By introducing legislation that prevents same sex couples to not adopt and care for children, you are only helping to promote hate, not (as you think) solve the problem.
In a perfect world, two loving people would give birth to a wonderful child and raise beautiful kids. The parents would work and be able to afford the best day care, schools, health care and extra-curricular programs. But, you and I will agree, our society is far from perfect and the reality is far from that picture. One look at our divorce rate, close to 50% shows that this isn’t a perfect world. I could fill this email with statistics about the less then stellar job we as American are doing raising our children. We need help, and if that help comes from people that can truly deliver love to children that need it, then it shouldn’t matter what sexual orientation the help is coming from.
To think that same sex couples will promote a ‘gay agenda’ or put children at “increased risk of physical and emotional problems†is absolutely closed-minded. Mr. Hood have you met a gay couple? Have you met a gay couple that wants to adopt a child? Yes, there are gay couples that are strange, deviant and not fit to be parents, but look through your community of “optimal setting†that you live in. Are ALL of your non-gay constituents fit to adapt children? One look through the sex offenders’ list answers this question.
I wish you could take the time to actually meet some gay couples. I wish you could actually take the time to attend a church service that is frequented by gay couples. I wish you could see the love that any couple could give a child, not just couples that fit in your close minded view of what a good ‘Christian’ should be. Love isn’t bound by sexual orientation, religion, skin, language or any other form of discrimination. I wish you could understand this, but without first hand knowledge of this I’m afraid you will continue to stay a close-minded person.
Please consider taking the time to understand the ramifications of the bill you introduced last week. If you would like to meet some great gay/lesbian couples (including my mother, whose also a pastor and works at Children’s Hospital) give me a call!
Good luck,
Andy Johnson